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Preparing for successful mediation: A guide for disputing parties

Writer: Nigel WilsonNigel Wilson

Updated: Feb 18

Mediation and Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) offer a low stress, relatively cheap and fast route for resolving civil and commercial disputes in the UK.

However, the effectiveness of mediation largely depends on the preparation undertaken by the disputing parties, and the mediator, before the mediation session.

Here's a detailed guide as to what conflicting parties and the mediator can do to best to prepare for a mediation session.


Disputing parties' preparation:

  • Gather Relevant Information: Begin by collecting all relevant documents and information related to the dispute, including contracts, correspondence, agreements, invoices, and any supporting evidence. Organise these documents to provide easy reference during the mediation session. Chronological organisation is normally the easiest and most effective. A win win!

  • Define Objectives and Priorities: Clarify your objectives and priorities for the mediation process. What outcomes are you seeking to achieve? Identify your main concerns, interests, and goals, as well as consider areas where you may be willing to compromise or find creative solutions.

  • Evaluate Strengths and Weaknesses: Consider your own case as objectively as possible to identify the strengths and weaknesses of your arguments and evidence. Consider how you can use your strengths to support your position. Where evident identify any potential weaknesses or vulnerabilities that may arise during the mediation and give some thought as to how you might desal with these on the day.

  • Explore Alternative Solutions: Be open to exploring alternative solutions or compromises that may satisfy your interests while also accommodating the other party's needs. Brainstorm potential options for resolution and consider a range of creative solutions that meet your needs and unlock a way of resolving the impasse with the other party.

  • Manage Expectations:

    Maintain realistic expectations about the mediation process and potential outcomes. While mediation offers a flexible and collaborative approach to dispute resolution, it may not always result in a settlement. To give mediation the best chance of success be prepared to keep an open mind, engage in constructive dialogue and negotiate as you see fit. Remember that if you are unable to reach a mediated settlement the doors to a more formal legal process aren't closed.


Interaction with the mediator's preparation


  • Alignment of Objectives: The mediator will arrange pre-mediation meetings with each party to understand their objectives, concerns, and priorities. This helps the mediator understand the background to the dispute and allows them to tailor the mediation process to address specific needs as appropriate.

  • Identification of Common Ground: During their preparation, the mediator identifys areas of common ground or shared interests between the parties. Again, this information helps guide the mediation process and identifys areas of likely agreement.

  • Maintaining Communication: The mediator's preparation involves reviewing the documents provided by the parties in order to understanding the legal and factual issues at hand. By being well-prepared, the mediator can then efficiently guide the parties through the mediation ensuring discussions are as productive as possible.

  • Neutral and Impartial Approach: Throughout their preparation, the mediator reamains neutral and impartial allowimng them to build trust and credbility with both parties. This ensures that discussions remain fair and balanced and gives the mediation the best chance of a achieving a successful outcome.


Effective preparation by disputing parties is essential for successful mediation, and it directly influences the mediator's approach and strategies during the process. With thorough preparation, both parties can significantly improve the likelihood of achieving a better outcome than they might otherwise achieve.


To find out more about how we can help mediate your dispute, please get in touch via email nigel@wilsonmediation.co.uk or on 0774 006 7306.

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